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Preface: For anyone who reads my blog now is time to speak up. This is sincere post and I assure you it is not a fish for comments. This preface only serves as an opportunity for people to make themselves known to me due to the serious matter of this post.

I offer a public service. My association with people throughout my entire livelihood has produced much selfless action. The situation I am in right now is very peculiar and it seems, despite my efforts, I am creating and destroying the same cycle of dramatic interaction. As cliché as it is, it begins with a woman. I have no particular feelings for this woman but I respect her character. I understand her upbringing and I understand her current state of emotional transition. I have had quite the physical encounter with this one but my intellect has been thrown in front of me as usual. I seem to abandon my most fundamental human urges for an exchange of intellect in nearly all cases.

The specifics of the situation are summarized as follows:

• I am physically attracted to this woman
• I am intellectually superior and have imposed my intellect on her
• She is infatuated with another man but…
• She has been without a significant other for some time and I am the quickest solution
• Because I have thrown my intellect to her she has obviously reconsidered our arrangement
• In her search to end her transitional phase she is seeking an emotional rescue (the other man)
• I lay in the background as the “consultant”, you might say
• The other man lies in the foreground, fighting with less intellect; working the social system to find his way to her
• I worked the social system to fall into the background
• I can either be the driving force pushing her to him and creating a successful relationship or I can be the driving force to destroy the extending social groups and end this in uproar; I would be forced to drift to another social clique.

I feel the best solution here is to back off more and more until things pan out. I need to take the road of least complications in order to ensure my social standing in the collective. I have been in this same situation a dozen times and it is important for me to tie bonds with an outsider (outside the situation in the same social group). I have an obvious candidate for this position. One plan might be to create a series of rumors that will turn for my favor and also save the inevitable couple. Another might be to establish the friend zone and be on back burner of their entire relationship. I think the latter is more achievable.

Footnote: If I push this there is a small situation that I might prevail but at what expense? Let’s see what happens over the next few days. I want to avoid extreme drama at all costs.

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